Monday, February 11, 2008

Excerpt from a conversation with C.

C.--she of the previous post--and I talked on the phone last night. We pick up the conversation where I've just informed her that I have sent her a small present:
C.: I love presents!

Me: I know you do.

C: Something I like to do sometimes, when I get really bored, is I'll find something that someone has given me and put it in a box and wrap it up, and then I pretend that someone has just given it to me.

Me (intrigued): I didn't know you did that.

C.: Yeah . . . and sometimes I'll find something of Mommy's and do the same thing--it's like more of a real gift that way.

Me: Well! That sounds like a lot of fun.

C.: It is . . . but I have to be really, really bored.

I have thought about this all day long.

It feels like it means something.

3 comments:

  1. Anonymous9:30 PM

    I've not been roaming the blogosphere so much of late, and this post reminds me that I need to - and I need to come back here when I'm not exhausted, and have had a few glasses of wine contributing to an already foggy mind!

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  2. Sorry for being late in responding, Pam. All I'll say is that I've been pondering this when clear-headed as well as when sleepy, and it still seems quite gnomish. But maybe that's precisely part of its appeal: as with the mulling-over of a koan, part of its point is precisely the mulling-over.

    Anyway, I think I now have a sense of what it means for me, but it sounds so Chicken-Soup-for-the-Soul-like that, given the fuss I've made, I hesitate in saying anything more about it than that . . . though, I'll also say ::Proud Parent Alert:: that it strikes me as being pretty damned insightful for a ten-year-old.

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  3. Anonymous8:15 PM

    ...seems like that not only has your daughter developed internal resources enough to cope with all of life's little ante-rooms, she is also clever enough to use her super powers sparingly.

    that is pretty impressive for 10.

    my eldest is 4 & 1/2 and i swear at times she acts like...she's 4 & 1/2.

    ; ' )

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